Oddly enough I find suspensions, though not side ones, to be extremely relaxing to do. Its like meditating in extreme form. Its a physical challenge but its also intensely freeing for the mind & body.
Side tie. Owwww the boobs.
Wow this tie was brutal. I had no idea what it meant when I was told I had dense breast tissue. Then I did this little number. Having all your weight squeezed onto boob tissue is a powerful experience. Not a light thing to do for a relaxing afternoon. O.o
This is a raw concept pic from early in my rope days, it wasn’t planned and my feet were sliding out of the holders & feeling like they were being ripped off by the buckles. Besides that it is a hella fun tie & spin situation.
Also collecting raw pics from shoot footage for interest. Will be up mid next week.
As a performer I also enjoy working with fire and will have a behind the scenes clip uploaded by the end of the week. Someone in the audience did a quite good cell capture of my show up in Whitecourt that I hounded them for a copy of and finally got it. Well worth the hassle of retrieval!!
Being tied up is hot. Seeing others tied up is also hot, doesn’t matter if its a guy or girl. Its also friggin sweet when someone knows how to tie well, not only for your own health & safety but because damn, it takes a lot of patience & attention to detail. Its not something you can fake with good results. And did I mention high level skillz are sexy?
Pain is an interesting thing, bondage does indeed hurt. Its not for you if pain freaks you out or you can’t deal with being confined in tight situations. There’s no escaping a solid tie on your own.
Pain is its own kind of drug, kind of like tattoos and piercings for many people but unlike them its not a permanent medium in its results. Its an intense concentrated feeling for varied lengths of time and the level of pain depends on how extreme the tie. Once you are tied up the pain escalates & then hits a plateaux where you kind of float off. Everyone has different reactions so there is no one experience fits all.
I kind of trance out when getting tied up, it’s the beauty of not needing to be in control & trusting someone else to do the work securely. I especially love crazy suspensions as they’re so freeing.
I got into bondage by accident, tripping over an amazing rope Masters work who is well known in the US and dropping him a line if he needed anyone for one of his ties up in BC. He asked if I had ever been tied before and when I said no then he recommended people that he’d worked with before & we met up and so began the journey into the art of rope bondage.
Hello peeps, first blog comment! As the one in the rope on this site I gotta say that it’s a good idea to know the person you will tie with before you do a tie because if you don’t, it can be quite risky if they don’t know what they’re doing.
I once worked with a photographer who said he wished to try some suspensions and naively I agreed as before I had only worked with professionally skilled people. As he was tying the ropes around me I noticed that something seemed a little off, the rope was just looped around, seemingly without anchor. When time came to lift into suspension all the rope slid up & jammed into the ribs, back & constricted breathing while the back half collapsed.
There was no support given, no awareness of the damage of the accident & no move to untie the disaster. Finally when I was being lowered it was a jerky process, again no support and the body was not happy at all. The untying was not immediate and by this time was long overdue. I mentioned to the photographer that if he doesn’t know how to tie properly then he should not be doing this. By the time I was heading home from the shoot I was still trying to breathe properly & have since had recurring back problems from stress & lifting.